I think one of the biggest lies of western society is, “the key to life is lowered expectations.” It feels too lose. Too relaxed on life. And for whose expectations? And what kind of expectations do they mean? I believe expectations should start with the self, but they’re influenced based on what’s known and from…
Category: Creating Goals
Write do and don’t do lists
I’m back bloggin’ after a week away! There was something I had to do, and I gave much energy to it. Instead of distracting myself with other self-given responsibilities, I focused and got it done. And that idea of CHOOSING ENERGY is what I am writing about today. We’ve all written to do lists. They’re…
Community and Feeling during Covid-19
I’ve been writing about feelings affecting goals lately, and I’ve felt terribly vulnerable. But it’s also been awesome because I have reached out to more people in the last couple weeks than I have in months. I received the Johnson & Johnson vaccine 2 weeks ago. I realize the gift, but I also know that…
Using feelings to build my WHY
It’s Sunday night, and that means, I am back on the blog. After writing about feelings shaping habits last week, I challenged myself to think about feelings in different ways. And I really tried to focus on my own feelings. Feelings create empathy, but this week I focused on COGNITIVE empathy. Cognitive empathy means I…
Can feelings direct habits?
How do people make decisions? How are goals made repeatedly? This is a personal dive into feelings and perhaps the first in a series. I have leaned into my introversion, but I have lately struggled with the feeling side. Perhaps it’s because when I took the Myers-Briggs, I landed a strong Introverted score but more…
I’m giving up cheese for Lent. Here’s how systems help omitting
Every year, I try to omit something for Lent. And though I am not the most religious person, this opportunity gives me a chance to see how abstaining with a movement can apply to other habits. I am giving up cheese this year. Lent provides structure. Many people, religious or otherwise, commit to giving up…
A minimalist’s guide to habit building
2021 has been so fruitful for goals. I think that’s because I build habits that sustain them. The goals are SMART so I can clearly see when I’ve missed a day or not. While I’ve logged daily, I am simultaneously getting bored by the format while also seeing the weekly/monthly goals are tougher to quickly…
Record and repeat your habits
What do I really want to accomplish this year? If you’ve taken a peak at my goals, I’m trying to focus on actionable steps every day. You are what you repeat. Some of my logs are easier to contribute to than others. It’s easy for me to record exercise because I value moving my body…
Using Resources for Frugal Fun during Corona
Ah, yes. Just finished week 3 of Corona-induced isolation. I’ve been sharing what I’ve been doing every week, from trying yoga to a bit of ballet. I’ve manged to stay busy, due in part to a mini-goal for the week: have fun while reducing funds. What have you been up to? This week, I gave…
3 questions to inspire action during Corona
It’s week 2 of writing about Corona. Last week, I wrote about what I’m doing during this strange time. Namely, keeping routines and making new ones, as much as possible. It’s a new normal. But, I keep circling back to this core question: how can I (and we as a society) keep going? Staying in…