It’s June 30th, and in theory it’s my last application of grace. I’ve been writing about this source of energy, kindness, and understanding for 5 months, with a new post every 10 days.
I’ve learned a lot about how to see life through the window of grace. And it’s time to give myself some, too:
Grace means giving myself the energy/compassion/space to express myself:
- even if I’m not doing so well
- even if I’m lacking confidence
- even if I have mixed feelings
- even if (it feels like) no one’s listening
Because in this scenario, grace starts with me. Grace doesn’t always start with the individual, but I’ve learned to seek it out while also trying to be the change myself.
Because we all could use a little healing right now.
The world’s a changing place. And for many people, myself included, we’re scared. Confused. Hurt. Bitter. Fundamental human rights have been taken away, since Roe V. Wade. I’m grateful to live in Colorado right now.
And I am grateful I have this virtual space to share that. I am here, friends!
But right now, this second? I‘m in a small cottage in Europe, the sun has finally set, my belly is full of fish, and I have wifi. These are big and small things.
Grace is giving yourself permission to escape or create places.
I’m honestly in shock we’re here. My best friend from kindergarten Cynthia and I have talked about this trip since 2017. We bought tickets in my old WI(!) apartment in 2019. We all know how the last 2.5 years have gone.
I’m trying to show up honestly while also recognizing that this is new grounds for both of us, physically and interpersonally. It was my first time driving on the other side of the road! We took a 6-hour flight together!
And now we’re exploring castles, cliffs, waterfalls, and animals. Culinary treats. And each other’s company. Grace means time together and apart.
I have so many pictures and will share when I’m in front of a computer again (this is all from my phone!).
Grace includes evolving.
I’m not going to stop learning. And I have some more ideas on how to apply grace, in my life and online.
This has been quite a journey! I’m learning to look at grace as energy, a way of showing up. Sometimes in stillness. Other times in courage. But grace is also about choosing to see it in others. Grace has helped me see clarity in grief, adventure in new surroundings and people, and kindness in myself. And these lessons will continue to endure and evolve as I will.
How have you seen grace lately? Has it changed from different stages of life? How do you cultivate grace?
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