It takes courage to ask for help. Becoming my truest self has been healing. Yet my people-pleasing tendency sometimes quietly lies, you’re not (doing) enough.
I’m not letting people-pleasing win anymore. If I need help, I need to communicate it. The key is asking for support. It’s not only sharing an unmet need or want, it’s being vulnerable by allowing more people in. I can’t always being “on” all of the time.
Learning to accept life on its own terms means letting go. Being there for myself first, especially including when I need to be empowered. But that can also co-exist with asking for help.
Respecting myself as a work in progress, I can start to let go… Including allowing the yet unknown details come, whenever they are ready.