I was wrong multiple times today. I pride myself on being time. Early when possible, buffers give peace of mind. Is this penchant for timeliness performative? Perfectionistic? People-pleasing? A former value of mine is punctuality, what I now see is time-chunking. However, this time obsession sometimes prevents taking life as it is. So today’s lesson…
Author: KaylieLongley
Intersection: Change and Consistency
Nothing changes if nothing changes. Stability may seem scary, boring, or – at the very least – redundant. How can both be true? Do I live in both realities? Believing in the affirmative, I can and have made many productive changes today, this month, and all year. That was one goal of setting “intersection” as…
Goals Progress: Still Running!
The temp soared to nearly 100. And yet, I ran. It’s the consistency that counts. I’ve got my first marathon in 2 months. It’s surreal. This weekend, I’ll be buckling up for a 2-hour run. I’ll be with my partner. And we’ll push each other. It’ll be after running 20 additional miles all week. But…
Creating: Protected Time and Pockets
Developing a creative habit includes having a vision of what you want and how to get there. Enter: Protected time. I try to write 3 pages every Sunday. This is hopes of finishing my book draft, a core goal of 2026. What about balancing consistency with seemingly sudden sparks. Inserting pockets of time and space…
Intersection: Emotional Labor via Energy
Questions I ask to intersect values and goals: Is this worth my energy? All we have is time, so how’s my capacity? Do external and internal forces shift my focus? How am I showing up, now? Will that change? What information is available? How much is accessible now? Do I have to “earn” it or…
Creating: I want to be…
A committed athlete. At least, that’s what my watch tells me, after jogging running a consistent pace. 4.5 miles in 45 minutes has splendid symmetry. An artist. Scribbling to actually say something. Not just another list. No longer restless. Able to resist pressures. Where stressors are fuel – not just quiet anger – to rule,…
Applying marathon training to other goals
I’m running my first marathon in 3 short months. Training has taught me a few things… about endurance, community, and time. While the marathon itself is an actionable goal of running over 20 miles in 1 go, I am focused on endurance. Not how fast I get there. However, a Garmin helps me keep pace,…
Intersection: Savoring Time (even in Grief)
So much of life is measured… By seconds. Scores or rankings. Many of these are constructs. Units to organize, categorize, and just understand life. Ultimately, life is time. It’s unknown how long we have. Grief feels like eons, endless in its lingering. Holding onto what was. And yet. Life is not just these units. It’s…
Goals Progress Report: Archiving
I’ve landed a dream role! Combining rural librarianship with community archiving, I am now an archive librarian! Yes, for a new district. I believe each chapter matters. Each experience led me here. Both professionally and personally. Uncovering personal stories, helping make the institution’s history accessible, and building programs for memory, education, and entertainment are all…
Exploring: 1 Day in Sante Fe
I set a goal to visit 3 states this year, making memories from the plan and the lived experiences. Combining curiosity from novelty and expectation management through joyful planning, travels are right in line with my values. Last year, my partner C and I took a road trip from CO to NM and AZ. The…